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How to have an orgasm herself: Discovering the secrets of masturbation for women.

Everything you need to know to achieve an unforgettable orgasm. And the best of all, alone! You can have more orgasms with sex shop products.

Despite the modern world and all the access to instant information, some women still feel that masturbation is taboo. Many women consider masturbation as a "man's thing", others are not aware of how to achieve orgasm by themselves, and many have never experienced the sensation of their body responding to the maximum pleasure that can be obtained.

 

Female masturbation is a totally normal practice, used for years since the ancestral age. If you've never had an orgasm or reached climax and want to learn how to have fun alone, you're in the right place, babe!

 

Having an orgasm is fun!

First of all, you need to stay completely relaxed without stress or tension. The part of your body that will help you relax is exactly the one that can ruin the whole moment, that is, the brain.

Each woman has her own ritual of relaxation. There are some women who prepare a special bath with warm water, candles, and a piece of sexy music, there are others that prefer to sit in front of the TV watching a sensual movie with a glass of wine and believe you or not, some women revealed that they do housework or other domestic activities to relax. The truth is there is not a perfect formula to relax your body in this situation, take your time to figure out what you enjoy, or try different things until you find one that makes you feel good. 

Second, set aside this unique moment for yourself, it's better if you are alone in a comfortable place. It can be a sofa, a bed, an armchair, or whatever, as long as you're totally comfy. And do not worry about big preparations, the most important thing is to be mentally ready to learn how to come alone.

 

Know your body

The human body has several nerve endings with different reactions to each neuron that a person possesses. Sexual hormones are released as soon as you start to excite yourself. According to the Kama Sutra, the human body has more than 400 erogenous zones and you will only need to focus on some of them to achieve orgasm alone.

Lie in a comfortable place, open your legs so that you can explore all the forms and textures of your vagina. Doing this, you will realize that there are six areas for you to explore down there. See the vagina anatomy below and learn how it works:

Labia majora (“large lips) and pubis - usually these are the less erogenous points of the vulva. However, everyone feels pleasure differently and some women can get excited with small squeezes and edges on the outer lips.

Labia minora (“small lips”) in the little lips the good feelings begin to materialize. You will feel them warming up by the blood that passes through them. Blood is pumped into the other nerve endings and it is these that make you feel more and more excited.

Urethra - the urethra is not just where urine comes out of the body. This zone is also one of the most important because it is right below the clitoris. So, at the same time that this little part receives attention, it shares the pleasure sensed.

Clitoris - the clitoris is the greatest pleasure zone in your body. With clitoris stimulation, you will feel a sensation often joying yourself and being satisfied. When you are touching your precious pearl, with circular massage, you will feel a natural kind of lubricant dripping from the vagina. Remember to use this liquid and pull it toward the clitoris. The more lubrication, the less friction, and consequently, a better climax.

Vagina - most women get pleasure in vaginal penetration when they are having sex, but in masturbation this pleasure is different. You will need to stimulate the erogenous zones above to enjoy penetration alone and have intense orgasms. In masturbation, the vagina can be penetrated with sex toys like dildos and vibrators while you stimulate the clitoris and the entire region of the vulva at the same time.

 

Bonus: A good way to get excited is by arousing your nipples during masturbation. The more pleasure the nipples have, the stiffer they get.

 

How to enjoy alone

Now that you already know the parts of the vagina that can bring you pleasure, you will need a strong ally, your fingers! Some women prefer to use the middle finger to stimulate themselves, others prefer to also use the forefinger, and you can make moves along or in circles around your clitoris. Also, take some time to penetrate and stimulate your G-spot, and explore, taking time to fully enjoy the feeling and getting to know your vagina. Your powerful fingers will take you to the maximum pleasure, orgasm!

Nipples also need lubrication. Wet your fingers with your mouth and go to the nipples. Squeeze, pinch, and alternate movements.

Use your fingers to stimulate the clitoris and smaller, inside lips. Remember that all zones work together and figuring out how to enjoy it all alone is a pleasurable job that everyone can find pleasure in. When you are close to getting an orgasm, we highly recommend that you stop, and wait some seconds, and then start again. By doing this, you will feel an extremely intense orgasm. 

Try using two or more fingers for more flexibility and change positions or direction. Do not just explore one place, your fingers are skilled!

 

Focus on your breathing

Breathing will be your greatest friend when it comes to masturbating. It is important because it helps to pump blood properly to the blood vessels in the vulva. This means that the faster you breathe, the faster your blood will flow. It's also better if you exhale slowly and inhale fast. Concentrate on the strongest and fastest action in your fingers as you exhale, making all sensations point to that moment.

 

How to get excited

Besides the types of stimulation above, you can get excited in other ways like watching porn movies, looking for sexy pictures or erotic movies. According to PornHub's 2018 review, "lesbian" is the most viewed category among female visitors, and women are 281% more likely to view the ‘Pussy Licking’ category when compared to men. In fact, the number of straight women that watch lesbian films is absurdly high, they like to see acts they enjoy on themselves, and lesbian porn is just more fantasy-based and romantic. Women also like foreplay and sometimes you can't find these scenes in heterosexual movies. Watching porn doesn't change your orientation.

No matter how you find pleasure, what really matters is that you are free of judgment and are willing to have a wonderful time alone, with yourself, just enjoying the pleasure of enjoying your body. Most importantly, do not be afraid or ashamed. Masturbation is NORMAL and so are you!

 

Lubricants for masturbation

As you've read, lubricants are good companions for female masturbation. You can find various types of textures, flavors and smells in sexual lubricants. Also, some lubricants have functions like liquid vibrator and astringents.

Another friend to masturbation is the vibrator. Some of them come with a clitoral stimulator, which plays the part of the finger while the other part is doing the job of penetration. One of the most famous and affordable vibrators is the Jack Rabbit, this is one of the models of vibrators that we suggest to those who are starting to take pleasure alone. It's like a necessary toy that all women need to have. 

And do not forget, the most important thing is to be happy and unprejudiced with your body. Enjoy masturbation, know your body and learning how to get multiples orgasms alone is completely normal. You are on the right path to becoming an expert on sex!

 

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